Rehoboth Beach 2023

This was our fourth trip to Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. Due to my oldest son Joe’s new college schedule, he isn’t off during teacher’s convention, so we had to wait until Friday afternoon to leave, whereas we normally took advantage of the school closure to alight for the shore.

Cape Henlopen Ferry

Being here on a weekend, it’s way more crowded than we’re used to. But still plenty nice!

I tend to plan around how we’re going to eat, so I’ll mostly discuss food:

  1. Salt Air:

This was Friday night’s dinner, and our third time to visit. It’s always been outstanding: it looks rustic and quaint but it’s a slick and professional dining experience. This time was good but not roundly great; the fries on the classic Shrimp Fry were of mixed quality, with limp and brown fries in the mix. Aaron and I both had the trout, and it was amazing: crispy and light, with a creamy sauce on the plate and a farro and quinoa mixture with beans, chorizo, and bacon. Rhonda and I split a pumpkin pie that had me puzzled: it was cooked down, almost cheesecake-like. I don’t go for desert, but I did this time and it was excellent.

Crispy Rainbow Trout
2. Drift:

Saturday night’s adventure was Drift, a new spot for us and to Rehoboth. It looked good on Yelp and had great reviews, but I was concerned with the limited selections on the menu. Fears unfounded; Drift was exceptional. Aaron got a scallop crudo that was unlike anything I had ever tasted before. The scallops were whisked in buttermilk and a vinaigrette, and tossed with salmon roe and finger lime. I think this was my first blush with finger lime and the sensation was wholly unexpected. Rhonda and I split an apple and burrata salad; she likes to make cheese plates at home and burrata is a favorite when it’s on sale. This was like what she might make at home, but the introduction of the tender-yet-firm apples, cooked enough to be jammy but crunchy, added a level of texture and sweetness that contrasted the rich creaminess of the cheese. For dinner, Joe ordered gnocchi (he’s the pickiest eater of our tribe but has opened up a great deal in the last few years, one notable holdout remaining an affinity for chicken). Aaron had the swordfish schnitzel, which was a thin fillet of swordfish, breaded and fried like a nice Maillard of veal. I haven’t ordered swordfish since getting tired of it back in my pescatarian days, and Anthony Bourdain’s story about the giant tapeworms sealed the can on that particular fish for me. But I was all set to try that dish until I heard about the scallops from the waiter. I can’t say that they are as fresh as the crudo, as that dish featured a scallop served in its own shell, and as I described to Aaron, the creature was alive moments before they brought it to the table. I’m thinking the dinner boasted similarly fresh scallops. The wait staff ask you if medium is ok as a doneness; I wasn’t anticipating the question, and don’t know what medium is relative to a scallop, but as a person who eats sashimi scallop, there can’t be a wrong answer save for “well done,” which is a no-no as with steak. My plan was to share a bit with Rhonda, who was enticed by the filet.

Drift Scallops

A word here about filet: it’s the cut I’m least likely to buy, especially at a restaurant. I like it plenty, but don’t prefer it to other cuts. I have always made it well (not well done), though; I band it up along the midsection of the individual steak, and then grill it till it has a nice char, finishing over indirect heat. I now exclusively sous vide the filet at 128 or 129 for an hour or so and then finish on the grill.

Filet

But this dish? Superb. I will henceforth sous vide mine a bit lower, shooting for something in between rare and medium rare. The rub was salty and sweet. It was a stunning entree, and generous to boot: you expect to overpay for steak at a restaurant, and like me might be loathe to order one because you make good ones at home. But this was worth it.

Drift

  1. Miyagi

I wanted to skip lunch on Saturday because of the dinner and drinks that accompany our getaways to Rehoboth Beach, but the boys would have been sorely disappointed at omitting a stop at Miyagi for ramen. It was the first place I ever had ramen (save for Nissin in college) and the best. A thin, watery Japanese beer is the thing to go with such a lunch. I had a seafood hotpot and tried to control my noodle lust. Rhonda threatens every time to get something besides ramen but then doubts herself. She regretted skipping the ramen. Aaron had chasu buns and ramen; Joe, a karage chicken appetizer and then ramen.

Orion Beer from Okinawa

Ramen Hot Pot

Other Notables

  • Kilwin’s: caramel apples. Enough said. Fudge too. And bark.
  • Thrasher’s Fries: rustic boardwalk fries
  • Outlets: dropping a few pounds makes clothes shopping fun. I didn’t gain any weight on vacation, either; I was anxious about having to skip a couple of days on the rower but fear:unfounded.
  • The car wouldn’t start in the driveway to the ferry (we always take the ferry because it’s a nice adventure and you can, you guessed it, have a drink on the boat). Now I have a battery jump pack in the trunk
  • I wouldn’t buy a Mac Pro but I did enjoy seeing one in person

Kilwins Apples

Mac Pro

“My iPhone is Cooler”

A gentleman with a French accent approached me Saturday afternoon on Rehoboth Beach’s, ahem, beach and asked me to take a picture of him with his family. I readily agreed and reached out to take his phone.

Tourist, chuckling: “Don’t run away with my phone.”

Me, looking at the iPhone 8 with a cracked screen protector: “No worries. Mine is cooler.”

We all got a laugh at that.

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Sunday Serial

Some things to try:

  1. Connections word game on the New York Times: A newer game, where you choose groups of four words that share a semantic connection from a bank of sixteen. Fun like Wordle was fun.
  2. Japanese beer: I have a post coming up about our weekend in Rehoboth Bech, DE, but I wanted to suggest this style. Like the Subarashi I shared earlier, this ramen spot has several on tap (or Orion in a can, as I tried). Japanese beer stands in stark contrast to American (and British) styles: light, clean, devoid of anything bold. Very refreshing and light.
  3. Julio’s Birria Tacos: I have only had a few versions of this dish, but Julio’s are excellent, award-winning, and beefy.

Connections
Connections

Orion Okinawan Beer
Orion Okinawan Beer

Julios Birria Tacos
Birria Tacos at Julios

Today’s 30 minute row

Blew myself up today on this 30-minute piece. I did a 10-minute warmup with the missus using Apple Fitness+ (intervals with Josh) which set me up with almost 2500 meters before the 30. Ranked me in the middle of the pack.

Ride the wave.

30 minute row

Ranked Middle of the Pack

TikToking

Playing songs and singing isn’t necessarily hard, but the thing about it is, it’s easy to play bits of songs or just kind wander away when you get stuck or bored. But with posting your recordings somewhere, like TikTok (as I do), you have to figure out the song pretty well, at least the part you want to play, and then rehearse it enough that you don’t screw it up too badly.

There are two ways to come at this (I’ve done both): play the song live and record yourself, or record music via DAW and edit it. With the former, you have to get it right in a go while recording yourself with your phone or some other camera setup. With the latter, though, you can take your time and record different tracks, layer things a bit, add some effects and even auto-tune your vocals… and then do the MTV thing: play along to your own song, record it with video, and then edit the video so that it syncs up with the audio track you exported from your DAW. It’s embarassing on a number of fronts for the bashful.

And it’s way more work than you think it is.

It’s easy to see posting oneself doing something creative as trying to grab attention. And sure, it’s a little bit of that. But it’s really about making something. It’s about creating something, however deriviative, and putting it out into the world. Some people never do anything like that. Tiktok is probably the most face-forward, self-expressive thing I”ve ever done (and potentially the most embarrassing), but it’s just more of the same of what I’ve been doing since there was an internet to post things to. Uncorrected is just the latest incarnation of me writing on the internet, preceded by my Tumblr page https://nonjo.com and even LiveJournal back in the day.

I would always hear harmonies in my head and appreciated them in songs I liked. So I get to try that, singing high and low parts. It’s fun just to make the songs at home and hear the results, but I get a kick out of posting the final product. I also wince when I do it. But I do it.

We(no)govy

I’m floating around sub-170s these days, hitting a cool 165 mid-last-week. I started this journey thinking hitting 210 would be a welcome, if ambitious, goal, inching back to my most ardent cycling days. But I haven’t gotten sick of rowing or moderation, so I’m riding the wave. Too long, maybe?
In any event, someone at work asked someone else at work how I did it, and the person wondered about aloud about Ozympic. (they don’t know how I feel about needles obviously.) So now when people ask me what I’m doing, I wonder myself if that’s the answer they expect. Or suspect.
I don’t have a problem with medical interventions for anything. If you think that’s the best solution for you, and you’ve weighed the risks, go for it. But I did it the old-fashioned way. That’s not the better way or anything like that. It’s just how I did it. I never even considered asking my doctor about it. In the back of my mind, my thought about semaglutide isn’t a novel one, and it’s the same observation people make about weight-loss surgeries: does the treatment lead to long-term change?
Anyone who’s lost weight fears the day they find themselves searching for their old pants. This is true if you inject semaglutide, get gastric bypass surgery, or live in a calorie deficit. I learned what it’s like to do it myself. I’m happy about it but humble, too. My life allows me to find the time in a way that’s convenient. That’s all.

Me, October 2022

Me, September 2023

Serial Sunday

A few things to try this week:

  1. Four Roses Small Batch Bourbon: for your Manhattans or old fashioneds. Cooler weather = brown liquids. Nothing fancy; competes with the ubiquitous Makers Mark on Price.
    Four Roses Small Batch Bourbon
    Four Roses Small Batch Bourbon
  2. Detroit-style pizza: I follow Kenji’s recipe and everyone enjoys it. I just buy pre-made dough at the store.
    Detroit-style pizza
    Detroit-Style Pizza
  3. Queens of the Stone Age‘s Rated R: I am terribly guilty of knowing songs and not albums in this post-album digital subscription world. This is one of their best, I think. I covered “In the Fade” on TikTok, and it’s one of those songs that gets demystified a bit when you learn it, but still can’t not listen to it.
    Rated R by Qotsa
    Rated R by Qotsa

The Curious Matter of the Photogenicity of Orange Oils Atop a Martini

In the absence of orange bitters, which aren’t always easy to find and have become incredibly expensive, I copped a move from my dad and twist a big ole peel of orange rind into a Martini. More specifically, I use a big piece with the pith intact while mixing (stirred in a glass pitcher), and then garnish the drink with a smaller piece of peel, pith removed.

The garnishing isn’t a mere plop of the peel into the drink; I squeeze the strip of orange along its long axis over top of the drink, releasing the oils onto the surface of the liquid. I then rim the glass with the orange peel for that je ne said quoi. I enjoy the entire process of making the drink.

One of the visual aspects that I enjoy the most about this is seeing the orange oils floating atop the drink. In the same way that oil and water don’t mix, oil and gin doesn’t mix. I’ve always marveled at the visual picture of the oils resting atop the gin, but struggled to capture a picture that expresses it.

orange oils on a martini

You can see them a bit in this pic, mostly on the left side of the drink, where the light hits the surface. My drinks are much smaller than they used to be, and lavishing attention on little details brings me much joy.

Serial Sunday

A few suggestions for this week:
1. Try a new OS: There are a few ways to try another operating system on your computer. I have my son’s old Alienware gaming PC running Windows 11 alongside my Mac, which is a fun counterpoint. I (over)loaded it with 32 GB of RAM, up from a measly 8 GB (it’s hard to believe how many computers of both stripes still come loaded with 8 GB of memory), and it runs just fine. Virtual optionshttps://www.virtualbox.org/ are fun too, just to scratch the itch, if you have it.
2. If you’re checking out Windows, you have to try PowerToys. It’s a collection of little utilities that have morphed over the years (I had a Vista machine at a former job and installed it right away). One of my favorites is FancyZones.
3. Martha Stewart’s French Toast: this recipe has you soak the bread in the egg mixture for a spell while you heat your griddle (or pan). The result is a more custard-y version than the standard dunk-n-fry. You need bread that can take a soak, though; wonder bread won’t hold up.

French Toast
Martha Stewart’s French Toast

PowerToys FancyZones
PowerToys FancyZones

Outlining FTW

I’m taking a test prep class and during tonight’s class, my breakout room shared our answer to a constructed response task. I had volunteered to do the typing, and I got a compliment from a group member about my outline. Later, when we shared, one of the advisors praised the structure and content as a good answer. So I felt good about that.

My particular fascination with outlining came well after I’d finished college, when I found myself in a professional development session and I decided to write with Omni Outliner. That particular program is amazing and weird and challenging to use, but I have always liked it. What came next was a succession of plaintext and markdown files that offered more or less outliner-friendly affordances. The last outliner I got into before I began my experiment as a Windows user was Bike: I remember the palpable sense of dread I experienced imagining how I was going to prevaricate about which outliner was right for the task. 1

I actually don’t outline quite as much as I used to, because while outlines are incredibly helpful at structuring your thoughts and knowledge, they are inflexibly hierarchical when you want to connect ideas2. I’m currently of the opinion that the best notes are handwritten, a collection of thoughts and facts that may be outlines in large part, but with jottings and arrows and other leaps of thought scattered across the canvas. I like OneNote right now, but there are plenty of contenders on Windows and the Mac.

Word doesn’t have an outline mode in the sense, but it does a fine job formatting them. No folding though.


1 There are technical considerations to make besides which outliner to make, depending upon the app you’re using. Drafts makes a dandy outliner, but unless you leave everything in Drafts, you have an export decision to make. Other applications, like WorkFlowy, are their own silo of data and represent another location to search when you realize you need something. iAWriter walks a weird line between the two, allowing you to specify additional file locations besides its default library.

2I don’t want to ignore backlinks in apps like Workflowy and iA Writer, though; this feature alone found me adopting Workflowy for a time. If I were glued to my desk all day, I might have found more use for Workflowy.

DIY Sriracha

I’m spacing on this week’s Sunday Serial, but I did want to share that my youngest son, the culnarian, is making his own sriracha sauce. He took thai chilis from the garden and chopped them up. They are currently fermenting in a brine, needing a daily burp. Can’t wait to try the finished product.

Sriracha, ASAP