“Productivity Rain Dances”

I was listening to Episode 341 of Cal Newport’s Deep Questions podcast and he started talking about “productivity rain dances.” It was one of those terms I’d never heard before but knew exactly what it was the moment the syllables filled the cabin of my Mustang. Have you ever decided to abandon your to-do app of choice in favor of another one in order to dodge a project? Clean your desk off or straighten up the dorm room? I’m oversimplifying, but that’s the gist.

The answers to these questions aren’t necessarily easy. As I talk about in Slow Productivity, making more time for key efforts often requires that you first tame the less important activities that are getting in the way. You probably need a more formal workload management philosophy to avoid overload, such as using quotas or separating “active” tasks from “waiting” tasks. You’ll also need better collaboration processes that avoid the distraction of constant messaging, such as using regular office hours for complicated discussions, and some notion of time management, such as time blocking, to maintain control of your schedule.

As he makes the case in the episode: it’s not an app. It’s something boring or simple that will probably make the difference. I like the idea of scheduling office hours or something similar; the number of distractions I face each day are pretty disruptive, none of them unwelcome or purposefully intrusive. But shifting cognitive set has consequences, and boy do I love my quiet time.

Productivity Rain Dances

Sunday Serial: Butcher and Singer, ActivityPub, and Oliver Burkeman’s The Imperfectionist

Here’s this week’s list of things to check out.

Butcher and Singer

OK, I’m cheating a bit by picking a place I featuredyesterday with a bunch of pix last night, but there’s a bit more I could say. Butcher and Singer is a steakhouse, an in Steven Starr’s thematic approach, has a kind of Mad-Men-era vibe. (Starr is famously a concert promoter-turned-restauranteur, which is often credited for his curated collection of foodie experiences.)

There is a fascinating collection of Manhattans, and I find it interesting that there are no martinis featured on the menu in the way that the Manhattans are. I was sorely tempted to try the Robber Baron, which would be a Rob Roy by most definitions.

Butcher and Singer’s Manhattans Drinks List
Butcher and Singer’s Manhattans Drinks List

I ordered a NY Strip, which is a cut I almost never cook at home, but often find on the menu in steakhouses. It’s a leaner, grainier, beefier cut than my favorite, the ribeye, but I make ribeye at home all the time. I like the texture of strip, too. One thing I’ll say about this strip, and it reminded me immediately of the specimen my son, who attends a local technical high school’s culinary arts program, brought home from class one memorable day: the cut was of the bone-in variety, and this made the experience of eating it completely different from the thinner boneless version I’ve usually enjoyed. I prefer the bone-in version hands down.

The kitschy, throwback-to-bygone-era vibe even includes Baked Alaska as a dessert option. It’s hard to pass up; like the Lobster Thermidor at the Knife and Fork in Atlantic City, it’s one of the few (if only) places I go that has it on the menu.

Baked Alaska at Butcher & Singer
Baked Alaska at Butcher & Singer

ActivityPub

One of the concerns people who right on the internet entertain from time to time is how to promote their work. I don’t have any intention of making money doing this, but I do want to participate as fully as I can in an online community. And the version of that participation that would include Facebook and its associated services isn’t what I have in mind. I started digging around with WordPress, which powers Uncorrected, and learned a bit about ActivityPub. I’ve followed a few tutorials and got things linked up with Micro.blog and Mastodon. I had long ago set up a Mastodon account, but never really used it. But I don’t really use Twitter/X and Facebook isn’t interesting to me save for the occasional family post. But the idea is to decentralize your social identity.

Oliver Burkeman’s The Imperfectionist

Burkeman chronicles the the post-GTD landscape: there’s too much to do, there’s not really anything you can do about it, but let’s not fall into despair. It’s comforting and empowering writing about being productive, but encountering meaning and value outside of your role as an information worker.

And Lest I Forget… Tonewood Brewery

I snapped a couple of pics of our pre-game celebration at the serially excellent Tonewood Brewing in Barrington, NJ, this afternoon. Behold:

Tonewood Biergarten
Tonewood Biergarten

BIERGARTEN Märzen Lager 6.0%
German malts, Tettnang, Haltetau Mittelfrüh, Saaz. Notes of buckwheat, dried cherries,black tea, toffee, and seedy granola

Tonewood Vermillion
Tonewood Vermillion

VERMILLION Vienna Lager 4.8%
100% Vienna Malt & Hallertau Mittelfrüh hops, Biscuity Malt, Fresh Baked Rye Bread,and a light Peppery finish

Butcher and Singer

Somewhere in the mid-1990s my parents started dining out more, notably in Philadelphia. They took Rhonda and me out to Suzanna Foo in probably 1997 or 1998, and it was a revelation. Things have gotten better locally, and a nice dinner out didn’t necessitate a drive to Philly. But Restaurant Row still beckons, and we thought Aaron, an aspiring chef, might enjoy Steven Starr’s take on a classic steakhouse. Fois gras was had.

Core Four
Core Four

Menu cover at Butcher and Singer
Menu cover at Butcher and Singer

Me and Rhonda
Me and Rhonda

Aaron and Rhonda
Aaron and Rhonda

Oysters
Oysters

NY Strip
NY Strip

Crème Brûlée
Crème Brûlée

Baked Alaska
Baked Alaska

“Your Psychological Centre of Gravity”

Good advice from Oliver Burkeman:

But there’s one piece of advice I’m confident applies to basically everyone: as far as you can manage it, you should make sure your psychological centre of gravity is in your real and immediate world – the world of your family and friends and neighborhood, your work and your creative projects, as opposed to the world of presidencies and governments, social forces and global emergencies.

The Imperfectionist

Arthur Brooks on Finding Love, Traps, and Dating Sites

Arthur Brooks on Finding Love, Traps, and Dating Sites:

Dating sites first emerged in the 1990s, and by 2020, more than 50 percent of heterosexual couples had formed after meeting this way. Sometimes, this led to good results, and people were happily and permanently partnered. Troublingly, though, scholars recently found that, on average, couples who ultimately get married to someone they met online have less stable and satisfying marriages than people who meet offline.

HOW TO REALIZE YOUR OWN LOVE SUPREME

Why Iggles Bleed Green

I usually look to Vonnegut when the fan noise gets to be too much. But here’s a good explainer:

A sports team is an expression of a fan’s sense of self, as I learned from dozens of interviews and research articles I surveyed for my book “The Secret Lives of Sports Fans,” is an expansion of a fan’s sense of self. It is not an obnoxious affectation when a devotee uses the word “we”; it’s a literal confusion in the brain about what is “me” and what is “the team.” In all kinds of unconscious ways, a fan mirrors the feelings, actions and even hormones of the players. Self-esteem rides on the outcome of the game and the image of the franchise.

The psychology of why sports fans see their teams as extensions of themselves

Lazy Sunday in Hammonton

Discouraged by the likelihood of non-regulars flooding the local wineries, Rhonda and I made a rez at the Blue Rascal in Hammonton for late afternoon cocktails.

We each had a rye Manhattan, proceeded by an old fashioned and a whisky sour. We brought our own provisions and stopped route at Baglianis for a restock. It was a short hop over to the Maplewood, so why not?

Rye Manhattans at Blue Rascal
Rye Manhattans at Blue Rascal

Whisky Sour at Blue Rascal
Whisky Sour at Blue Rascal

Maplewood
Maplewood

Nino’s Special at the Maplewood
Nino’s Special at the Maplewood

Sunday Serial: BundlehuntSunday Edition!

Say what you will about Reddit: I find out about a lot of cool software from there. TIL there was a bundle available and I got a few things.

File List Export

I have high expectations for this app, considering the synchrony with which it came into my life. I’m tryin to move my file system over from PARA to Johnny Dcimal and It’s a lot to think about. I’m thinking FLE will help me build a JDex. Can you imagine… a daily OPML of your files, viewable in OmniOutliner?
But we’ll see.

DisplayBuddy

I’ve been plugging my Macs into external displays since forever, and in the most convenient applications, that was an Apple Display of some kind. Apple stopped making displays for a while, and the ones they make now are nice but expensive (and generally beyond my needs). I can live very comfortably with a 4k display of just about any kind, and a 60 Hz refresh rate doesn’t bother me at all…on a Mac.

(Having recently experienced the difference between the display on the MacBook Pro and an M2 Air, however, I can attest to my preference for the Pro Display). More importantly, though, using an iPad or iPhone with ProMotion will spoil you for that display technology. But on a Mac? For my needs, 60 is fine.

One of the bugaboos about using third-party displays on the Mac, however, is that while most of them will work as a display right out of the box, many have no additional software support outside of what macOS recognizes. I grabbed a cheap display around the holidays (a 27” Samsung G5) to use at the office, and I was suspicious that not all of the resolutions capable were shown in the System Settings app for the Mac. I found DisplayBuddy and BetterDisplay via Reddit, and have tried both. So this was a good chance to get a license.

I did manage to change the resolution on my Mac Studio connected to a 32” Samsung U32J59 to something that didn’t work, and I had to go through a harrowing hour of trying to fix it. But if you’re even interested in reading at this point, you’re probably someone who has hosed your filesystem a few times or rm-ed something by accident, so carry on.

DeltaWalker Pro

I don’t need the unix Diff command very often, but when I do, I really love it. When you’re comparing long lists of data, and you find a tool like Diff that makes short work of such a boring, repetitive task, you can’t help but feel bad for someone who’s trying to accomplish something you just know could be handled by a terminal command, BBEdit, or DeltaWaker.

Valentines Day + Dinner

We like to nip out for a meal often. Thursday are sometimes pizza night, because Aaron and I go to guitar lessons at 6 pm. Last night was a challenge, because one, it was the night before Valentines Day, and two, the night before the big parade in Philly to celebrate the Eagles’ winning the Super Bowl. We drove past the Double Eagle, our neighborhood pub, and it was packed. So we soldiered forth to Ikura for some sushi. The operators are Chinese (we chat), but they make good sushi.



Rhonda and I had agreed over 18 years ago that, for Aaron’s scheduled C-Section, Valentines Day would be a good birthday. We never really celebrated it all that seriously, and were more inclined to go out to dinner for it on a non-hallmark-holiday evening. I generally dislike going to even my favorite spots on holidays, because you aren’t going to get the normal experience. It will be crowded, or there will be a reduced menu, or something else that mars an otherwise normal experience.
We’ve felt bad, though, because often even casual meals on his birthday are tough to swing. Tonight’s gonna be Chinese takeout. He was good with that. Fancier non-holiday meals await!