Dinner at the Frog and the Peach in New Brunswick

For our big Parents Weekend visit at Rutgers, I made a reservation at Le Malt Lounge for Saturday night. I fully expected this to be the marquee meal of our trip. For Friday’s adventure, though, I texted Aaron to ask him if he wanted to go anywhere special. He didn’t express a strong opinion, but reiterated his interest in the Frog and the Peach, so I made a rez.

Frog and the Peach

It was more expensive than Le Malt Lounge, and decidedly better–casting no shade on Le Malt, but there it is. It’s in a newer development that put me in mind of the Naval Yard in Baltimore: cultivated, consciously developed, and oddly quiet for such a busy city. There’s nothing kitschy, accretive, or quirky about the neighborhood, Hiram Square, in the same way that a McMansion development often appears, and like the Navy Yard, it bears its share of social scrutiny.

Rhonda and I each ordered the Black Manhattan, which added Averna to the classic cocktail. I’m often suspicious of substitutions or additions like this, but the herbal, licorice flavors paired superbly with the drink. It had an inky blackness I appreciated in both the title and the presentation.

Black Manhattan

For apps, Aaron tried the bone marrow, which didn’t surprise me. I expected a couple of cross-cut shins, with a spoon to scoop out the marrow. Instead, the bones were cut longitudinally, such that the marrow (and the mushroom stuffing) was easily accessible. I can’t say that I preferred it with the stuffing to straight gelatinous and umami-rich marrow, but it was still good. It came with bread for serving.

Bone Marrow Appetizer

I had the oysters, which were billed as from nearby Fishers Island. They were briny and delicious, up there with Sweet Amalia oysters in my opinion. I don’t need mignonette with oysters when they’re good. The muddy Delaware Bay ones we often get in South Jersey require a flavor boost, but not these.

Fishers Island Oysters

Rhonda had the the pumpkin ricotta gnocchi as an appetizer. These were fantastic, with only a hint of pumpkin (and not the cloying “pumpkin spice” version of things that assault the senses around this season). They were clearly hand cut, varying wildly from pillow to pillow in shape. They were firm for ricotta dumplings. The garlic mushroom broth and escarole added great flavor and texture. I adored my bite. Sadly, I neglected to take a picture.

Aaron and Rhonda both ordered the duck breast; they had steak on the menu, but it was eye-wateringly expensive (as was Le Malt, to be fair). This was an excellent preparation, cooked perfectly, and the baby turnips, almond spatzle, spicy duck sausage, dried cranberries, and a balsamic fig puree, which, composed, added a ton of flavor and textural contrast.

I have an fulsome appreciation for the humble monkfish since my college days, when I swore off meat but ordered (and prepared) fish as often as I could. The tightly wrapped loins evoked the over-worn comparison to lobster tails, but I can’t crow about that: their lightness was emboldened by the prosciutto, which imparted a nice salty crust to the delicate fish. The shaved squash offered a ribbony pasta texture and chew without adding unwanted carbs, and the lemon in the sauce was nicely balanced with a touch of fat. Monkfish and a glass of Sancerre… perfect any night.

Monkfish

Sunday Serial: Rutgers Parents Weekend Edition

Rhonda and I rolled up to New Brunswick to steal Aaron from his fraternity “learning” this weekend during Parents Weekend. We stayed over two nights in place of our usual trip to Rehoboth Beach, DE, in November, which we’ve been doing for years, punctuated by mandatory quarantine during COVID.

Back in my day, this would have been called “homecoming,” but I guess Parents Weekend fits the bill more, as you can’t assume it’s for alumni only. Aaron reported that the football game tickets were sold out, which was fine with me; we don’t watch football normally.

Friday October 17th

Rhonda and I took a long and languid drive up Route 206, which is an old connector for travelers between South Jersey and Trenton (and parts north). I traveled it many many times from multiple back seats in my youth to visit family: my mom hails from Trenton, and my dad, Milford, by way of the Bronx. Our family, writ large, lived in a band from Trenton to Milford, with frequent visits to Flemington. It’s for this reason that I’ve never considered myself a native of these parts.

Friday’s plan was Stokelan Estates Winery, picking up Aaron, grabbing dinner, and then checking in at the hotel.

Stokelan Estates Winery

I’ve been keen to get here since we found the place on one of our trips to central Jersey, but the only time we stopped before, it was closed. I read good things about their rosé, of which they have two for sale: the Myra 2023 and the 2024. We tried the 2023; it’s billed as lighter than the 2023, but the Chambourcin grape fetched my fancy. (The 2024 is made with Merlot.) I’m happy to report that we stopped on the way home, as well, and tried both the 2024 Myra as well as their unoaked Catspaw Chardonnay.

Stokelan Estates 2023 Myra
Stokelan Estates 2023 Myra

The 2023, which we tried on Friday, is a nice dry rosé, crisp but with a very berry nose. We ordered the pumpkin goat cheese with bread and the no-utensils required charcuterie board (a phrase I’m loathe to utter unironically). On Friday, en route to Rutgers, we sat outside in the crisp fall weather, noshing and sipping.

No Utensils Required
No Utensils Required

Frog and the Peach

Aaron had a fraternity event Friday, but we had time for dinner out before his obligation, and we took the chance to try the Frog and the Peach. Aaron noted a couple of weeks ago that they had bone marrow on the menu, which I take as a declaration of seriousness.

Aaron and Rhonda at the Frog and the Peach
Aaron and Rhonda at the Frog and the Peach

Rhonda and I had the Black Manhattan, which had Averna as an ingredient. It was inky black and delicious. We all enjoyed our dinners; Rhonda and Aaron both had the duck breast, while I went for the prosciutto-wrapped monkfish. Rhonda and I split a dessert, dropped Aaron off for the fraternity event, and headed back to the room for a reprise of My Big Fat Greek Weeding while I downloaded my cameras’ pics to my iPad.

Frog and the Peach Manhattan
Frog and the Peach Manhattan
Oysters and the Frog and the Peach
Oysters and the Frog and the Peach

Saturday

I am a traveler who plans his days around meals. Dinner would feature Le Malt Lounge, which I expected would be the show-stopper night out on this trip. We planned to hoof around Rutgers, hit a mall for some shopping (we’re eighties kids, me and Rhonda), and then dinner. Perhaps most adorably, I mentioned to Aaron that our room featured a sofa sleeper, and he remarked that he could stay over. I readily agreed, and he still wanted to do so as we wrapped up dinner. We were so happy to have him join us.

New Brunswick

We picked up Aaron just before noon and strolled (marched? Have you seen me walk?) to the Zimmerli Art Museum for a tour. I took a bunch of pics with both cameras, fodder for a future post.

The Stoning of St. Stephen at Zimmerli Art Museum
The Stoning of St. Stephen at Zimmerli Art Museum

We then walked up into town, checking the spirit wear at both the Barnes and Noble and Scarlet Fever. Downtown was jammed with parents just like us. We grabbed some drinks at Efes, where Aaron previously tried his first Turkish coffee, and wandered around a bit before having Indian buffet for lunch.

We lit out for the Menlo Park Mall thereafter, and raided the Old Navy there. We ogled the iPhone Air at the Apple Store, and Aaron and I fell in love with the AirPods Max on display, which I think will certainly be on Aaron’s Christmas list. I loved the sound but don’t think I’d use them. But Aaron? He’ll plug right into them.

Rhonda and Aaron and Zimmerli Museum
Rhonda and Aaron and Zimmerli Museum

We had dinner at Le Malt Lounge, which was not at all what I expected it to be, but the food was excellent, and the service pretty good. I had some deviled eggs and a pork chop, both of which were great. Aaron had the pork chop as well, but his was drier than mine. The wine was much more affordable than the Frog and the Peach, and the Manhattan, while more traditional, was excellent. We skipped desert and rolled back to the room after–all three of us.

Me and Aaron
Me and Aaron

Sunday

Sunday of course featured checkout, and another teary farewell, but we had a divey bagel experience on the way back to Aaron’s dorm from the hotel. We got Aaron back to the dorm, helped him carry some necessities and new clothes back up to the room, and said our goodbyes

Rhonda and I hit Stokelan again on the ride home, and then it was a long wait for grocery pickup at ShopRite, featuring yours truly going full Karen and asking to speak to the manager. Nice reintroduction to reality; talk about Sunday Scaries.

At Stokelan, we tried the 2024 Myra, which remains crisp and dry, with a tart fruit bite. I’d lean towards the 2024 if someone pressed me for a recommendation. We also tried the Catspaw Chardonnay, which is an unoaked version of the varietal. It’s got a salty minerality that I really loved, but a touch of richness that I’d look for in an oaked Chardonnay. Really good.

Stokelan Estates 2024 Rose
Stokelan Estates 2024 Rose

We tried the Tuscan vineyard platter this afternoon, which has a trio of spreads, some salami, olives, and pita. Rhonda detected some cumin in the hummus, which I’ll have to add to my recipe.

Stokelan Estates Tuscan Vineyard Platter
Stokelan Estates Tuscan Vineyard Platter
Stokelan Estates
Stokelan Estates

While wining and dining at Stokelan, we agreed to cancel our November Philly overnight (an excuse to eat at Monks Café) and head back up to New Brunswick. I have an Ethiopian recommendation from a colleague, and of course, it’s a chance to try something else at Stokelan.

And best of all? We get to visit Aaron again, before the holidays.

I have more pics and will write up some more granular posts this week if time permits. Thanks as always for stopping by.

Thursday is the New Friday

I was in Friday fettle today at work, as Rhonda and I are off to visit Aaron for Rutgers Parents Weekend tomorrow. We plan to stop at Stokelan Winery on the way up. I made a couple of dinner reservations: The Frog and the Peach and Le Malt Lounge. I’m not sure what we’ll end up doing otherwise but it’s going to be a nice visit no matter what.

We nipped out with Joey and Sorayah for dinner at Cilantro, tableside guacamole and all. Rhonda and I split a bottle of Autumn Lake winery’s Alberino, which I read about at Uncorked. It was excellent. We all had ice cream after.

Autumn Lake Winery
Autumn Lake Winery
Autumn Lake Alberino
Autumn Lake Alberino
Cilantro-carne-asada-ranchero
Cilantro-carne-asada-ranchero
Cilantro Signage
Cilantro Signage
La Bonita Ice Cream
La Bonita Ice Cream
Joe and Sorayah
Joe and Sorayah

One thing I’ve been thinking about writing up is a post on making sure you put some joy in your to-do list app. For me, that’s OmniFocus: I’ve been storing wishlists of books, apps, clothes, and household items in projects that I keep on hold. And one that’s strictly for nerd endeavors. Tonight, I made a packing list for the weekend.

Sunday Serial: Backroads IPA, Gerard Bertrand Gris Blanc, and Tron 4K Remaster

It feels like fall out there! Finally! I pulled some flannel out of the closet upstairs and swapped out my short-sleeve polos and shorts. It’s a good day to be inside, with all this rain and wind.

We met Teri for some snackies and wine at Bellview for one of the last soirees of the season Friday after work. Next weekend Rhonda and I will be in New Brunswick visiting Aaron at Rutgers for Parents Weekend. I’ll have plenty to share for sure. Tripsy is all loaded up with ideas and a reservation for Le Malt Lounge on Saturday. We’re planning on stopping at Stokelan Estate Winery on ride up.

Bellview

Buena Connection’s The Backroads

Rhonda and I rolled up to Hammonton yesterday to restock our salami stash; they have these big unmarked salami that are identifiable as spicy or mild only by a rubber band. They are always excellent and will last you a while unless your salami lust is boundless.

Salami from Baglianis in Hammonton

We stopped off for a pint at the Buena Connection Brewery, which I’ve featured a few times here. I tried their Backroads IPA, which they describe thusly:

Pours like a pale yellow, almost straw-like color with a light-moderate haze. notes of fresh squeezed orange juice with a medley of citrus and tropical aromatics

It’s their take on the juicy, hazy style of IPA that has found favor among hopheads in the last few years. It was excellent. I was tempted by their Photon (kölsch) and Western Sky (West Coast IPA), and of course the Oktoberfest. I was really happy with my selection. A former classmate of Rhonda’s pours pints there and we love to chew the fat with him while we have a few sips. I actually cycled with him once, back when I first started riding with the group that would become Paramount Cycling Club.

Buena Connection’s Backwoods IPA

Gerard Bertrand Gris Blanc

After the salami run, we stopped at Rocco’s Town House for an early dinner (are we that old now?) and it was once again excellent. We asked for a bottle of White Horse Winery’s rosé, but they were out. The waitress suggested this gris blanc, it was perfect: crisp, but with a touch of tart fruit on the palate.

I had scallops for dinner, and we shared their steamed mussels first. All really really good.

Mussels at Rocco’s Town House

Tron 4K

I was a wee pup of seven years when Disney’s Tron debuted in theaters. It was the kind of special effects-heavy kid-friendly sci fi flick that us kids dug right into, including the five-points-of-aritculation Tomy toy line. Tron:Ares just came out in theaters, and while I don’t think I’ll see it there, I will as soon as it comes out on Disney+. I thought it would be fun to watch the original, which I’ve done many times over the years. I cued it up the other night and started watching, and the first thought I had was, “wow, the special effects really hold up.”

Rhonda remarked that it must have been touched up, and she was right:

The original Tron has been digitally scanned and meticulously restored by The Walt Disney Film Restoration team, which corrected the new digital master for dirt, warping and other source imperfections. Resulting, Disney claims, in “pristine image quality.” The Restoration Team’s work was all undertaken under the supervision of director Steven Lisberger, too, to ensure that the remaster remains true to the original artistic intent.

I’ve encouraged the boys over the years to enjoy Tron, as I did with DC and Marvel comics, Star Wars, and lots of other plastic pursuits. Diamond Select released a three-pack of Tron figures that borrowed the Tomy line’s colored translucent plastic, but with updated articulation and detail compared to the original line. I ordered it for the boys back then and Aaron was kind enough to let me display the Kevin Flynn figure on my desk.

There’s a lot to ponder on rewatching Tron: the nominal hero, Tron, overshadowed in plot and on screen by an impossibly young Jeff Bridges; the anthropomorphized “programs” that live in the Grid; and questions of identity and free will.

Pressure Cooker Risotto

One of the central challenges (perhaps the challenge) of cooking at home is remembering dishes. You can easily get in a rut, or at the very least forget about some popular and easy dishes.

To this end, I refer to AnyList to see what was on the meal plan recently, but the problem with ruts is they can stretch out interminably. That means a lot of scrolling in AnyList.

Rhonda and I realized I hadn’t made this pressure cooker risotto, which everyone likes. I grilled some chicken last night to save for tonight to have with the risotto, in part to purge our memories of the terrible risotto we had at last Wednesday’s Wine Down Wednesday. Theirs was firm, loafy, with some uninspired chicken sliced up in there. Not so mine.

We went hard on the mushrooms.

Pressure Cook Risotto
Pressure Cook Risotto
Pressure Cooker Risotto (TT Artisans Lens)
Pressure Cooker Risotto (TT Artisans Lens)

Sunday Serial: Fiery Feeds for RSS, Somers Point Brewing Company, and Somers Point

I’m back from vacation in Ocean City, New Jersey. We’ve been going since 2009 for a week or more each summer. It’s a great Disney-esque shore town. I checked email lightly and did some more yesterday and today so that I don’t walk into Monday without a plan. Here are some things to check out.

Fiery Feeds

Andy Baio linked to this post by Molly White a while back, where she extolled the benefits of RSS:

Perhaps you’ve heard of RSS. It stands for “Really Simple Syndication” and it allows websites like blogs, newsletters, and news sites to make their content available in “feeds” for outside services called “RSS readers” or “feed readers”. Far from being the new hotness attracting glitzy feature stories in tech media or billions in venture funding, RSS has been around for 25 years.

I was swimming this week in Ocean City and thought for a sec about how I’ve been using RSS to curate my news for nearly 20 years, and I’m glad the spec has stuck around all that time. I know a lot of people who would never bother with RSS, and that’s disappointing to think about. It’s one of those things I could bother a normal person about with great enthusiasm.

I was doing some reading on vacation last week and I remembered farting around with Fiery Feeds not long ago; I loved the high level of customization available in the app, but didn’t see why I might need to add another to my stable of RSS readers. As it stands, I use, frequently, and appreciate each of these for different reasons:

  • Unread
  • Reeder (Classic)
  • NetNewsWire
  • ReadKit

I’ve been working on an RSS reader article for Uncorrected, kind of rounding up the ones I use and cataloging their features and why I like/prefer different apps. Trying Fiery again after hearing Matt or Chris talk about it on The Comfort Zone, I realized how much I like it. And the yearly sub is cheap. It runs great on the Mac, too. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to just stick with one of these apps, and I’m glad to have the variety (even if it’s a bit of cognitive overhead to think about which one I’ll use at any given time). I like the Hot Like and Low Frequency filters in addition to the wild array of UI customizations.

Fiery Feeds
Fiery Feeds

Somers Point Brewing Company

Rhonda and I found this brewery on vacation last year and stopped in for one pint each this summer, we managed to get there twice: once after our date in Atlantic City, and once again while picking up dinner for everyone.

One intriguing sensation that I’ve started to notice is the flavor profile that tends to tied the varied offerings of each winery or brewery we try. I don’t know how to describe or quantify it, but for example, having tried many pints over the years at the excellent Tonewood brewery, I detect a flavor that unifies the brews. I notice this with Bellview Winery’s offerings, too; there’s something that unites their Astraea and rosé on my palette.

Somers Point’s brews certainly share this property, too. I would not say that their beers have roundly been my favorites compared to Tonewood or Bonesaw. I think I’ve settled on their NEIPA as my favorite of their styles, but I can’t wait for a chance to stop in again.

Somers Point Brewing Company

Somers Point

Speaking of Somers Point, I would recommend it to shoregoers looking for a break from the food in Ocean City. If you don’t mind heading off of the island for takeout, I can recommend that you try these spots:

Shen’s was Jing’s, and it was better when it was Jing’s, but this is still good if you need a sushi fix. The sashimi portions are huge. Cazadores seems new but the staff were super-sweet and the food was really good.

Carne Asada at Cazadores
Carne Asada at Cazadores

I’ll see your OCNJ and Raise You a Wildwood

We’ve been making jaunts to Wildwood during our annual Ocean City vacation for years. Wildwood is the closest approximation of the canonical Jersey Shore in parts southerly. It’s a baudy, ribald place compared to more Disney-esque Ocean City or Stone Harbor. For a 14-yer-old, it’s a revelation; to young parents, a hive of scum and villainy.

Crane Games
Crane Games

Pizza

There are a few things to say about Wildwood. First: pizza. Pizza is a big deal down here. The king in Ocean City in Manco & Manco, which fumbles off the tongue of local pizza cognoscenti. It was, and perhaps always shall be, Mack and Manco. Due to a family squabble, there’s Mack’s in Wildwood, and Manco in ocean city.

Sam’s Mushroom
Sam’s Mushroom

There’s a famous/infamous pizza reviewer who I won’t comment on other than to say that he weighed in. And he really liked Sam’s in Wildwood. We’ve tried it both before and after Dave’s seal of approval and I will say I considered it fine but quotidian before the big review, but enjoy it more now. It’s got a more crusty, firm undercarriage. I did have Manco earlier this week and I liked it more, though.

Fries

Wildwood and of Ocean City both have great French fry spots. We always hit the curlys in wildwood on the boardwalk near Morey’s because there’s a bar there and we can always get a Tonewood on draft. They serially have the Parkway to Paradise which we really like every time we have it. Back to Curly’s-They’re a thicker-cut fry than I prefer, but they’re good and have a sheen of historicity. (For the record, I like the hand-cut fries at the Promenade.)

Curly’s and a Beer
Curly’s and a Beer

The Local Flavor

Wildwood is a bawdier affair than Ocean City. I naturally gravitated towards it from the ages of 13-20ish, but the ideal of the boardwalk as a cozy family place always took root. Think vape shops, lousy pizza, and barkers.

Oh, Wildwood
Oh, Wildwood

Somers Point

We did manage to squeeze in another pint at the Somers Point Brewing Company. It has nothing to do with Wildwood but there it is.

Somers Point Brewing
Somers Point Brewing

OCNJ Date Nite

The date itself did not occur in OCNJ; the vacation prompted us to alight for Atlantic City, which is a town with a vibrant dining scene. (I’ve never been one for casinos.) We did our own surf n’ turf at the Knife and Fork, ordering a ribeye and the lobster thermidor, and split them. The waitress caught onto our design and the kitchen helpfully divided the steak into two serving dishes. It’s a small thing, but not to have to ask for it was classy.

OCNJ Knife and Fork1 2025 08 14.

OCNJ Knife and Fork2 2025 08 14.

We skipped dessert but ended up at a local brewery for a quick pint. Great night.

OCNJ Somers Point Brewing 2025 08 14.

Freshman Orientation is for Parents, Too

Aaron had an overnight orientation last night; retrieved him and a friend this afternoon from Rutgers. He had a nice time it seems! I think these toe dips are helpful to anxious parents too. It’s really dawning on both of us that he’ll be away so very soon.

I did a little research and found John and Molly’s as a possible stop on the way home. It was a good mid-journey break. They have really good mussels.

On Shaken, not Stirred

Richard Goodwin:

Only shake cocktails with fruit juice in them. It’s a simple but more or less binding rule. Certain international super spies occasionally break it cough James Bond with his ‘special Martini’ cough tosser. However, it will serve the rest of us well. When you break them down, there are essentially two kinds of cocktail. Aromatic cocktails contain only alcoholic ingredients. Sour cocktails that contain citrus fruit (or occasionally other fruits, cream, egg, coffee, etc).

The former kind (which are often dry, aromatic and occasionally bitter) should be stirred with ice, which results in even dilution and a smoother texture. The latter kind (which are often tangy, fruity and occasionally creamy) require shaking, which results in more amalgamation, more dilution and a slightly altered texture.

I am increasingly likely to ask for my cocktail made in a specific way because, despite the parsimony of the fundamentals, many bartenders don’t know them.

Manhattan at Home
Manhattan at Home

The Spirits