We haven’t had grilled shrimp at home for years–decades, maybe. I’d often suggest it, because it’s easy to make. I also like cleaning shrimp, because I had a job in high school where deveining and the peeling shrimp was a frequent assignment, and was, in its way, preferable to peeling onions, for example. I remember the owner’s brother, who would help out sometimes on busy nights, declaring that cleaning shrimp was a “good job.” I didn’t think so at the time, but some 30+ years later, I don’t have bad memories of it at all.
That’s a digression: my tendency it to suggest something for dinner (or a wine, or a place to eat) for a long time before we actually get around to doing it. Rhonda, perhaps kindly considering my low-carb preferences during the week, found this recipe from Kenjii Alt-Lopez and prepared it (I did the grilling). It was great and I think I can look forward to having grilled shrimp again soon.
Back in May, I wrote about some iPadOS rumors and my hopes for the os update. Today, Apple unveiled a lot of good stuff across their OSes. My short list for ipadOS was:
Rethought support for background processes
ChatBot Siri
A clipboard manager
Launcher utilities
Background tasks can run now, and show as a Live Activity on screen. These get on my nerves sometimes, but I’m curious to see how it works for me.
That’s all I got from my list, but if the improved Spotlight makes it over to the iPad, it might not matter as much. I did not, sadly, get a clipboard manager, but maybe the updated background processes will enable a developer to make one. No Chatbot Siri, either. I’m gonna have to stick with copilot for now.
In addition to new features coming over from iPhone and the Mac, iPad gains:
Files app improvements, like specifying default apps for opening file types
more Mac-like window management, with red, yellow, and green widgets
A menu bar and a true mouse pointer
Preview: no more using Files to mark up PDFs
Other notable developments:
– Split View and Slide Over are gone. I will certainly issue the latter, especially using Notes with Safari
– The Phone app on the iPad: what could this mean for the iPad Mini with cellular?
– Audio input: I wonder if this will work cleanly with my Thunderbolt dock and Scarlet Solo?
I’m excited to see Liquid Glass running on everything. I think I’ll skip the monochromatic themes, but I look forward to seeing others’ screenshots. (Clear, maybe.) I do hope Apple stops referring to it as if it were a substance, though.
Tabs in photos look good; I take a lot of pictures with my iPhone, but I love to view and edit them on the iPad.
I’ll wait until Jersey corn is available. There are definite charms to living in southern New Jersey, including the tomatoes and corn in the summer. And the blue claw crabs, which we were going to make tonight but decided on grilling some chicken drums instead. Maybe I’ll post a pic of those later. I gotta get on the stick.
Burr Grinder
There’s something about a hand-me-down that can trump a new purchase. I had a pair of tan leather workboats that my grandfather gave me in high school (we were pretty much the same height, shoe size, and pants size for a long while), and while the boots themselves were nothing special and didn’t even strike my fancy, style-wise, I loved the fact that they were somehow a perfect fit and had lasted many decades having seen little wear, but still were remarkably wearable. They had undergone that transformation from being out of style to timeless.
ANFIM Burr Grinder
I think one of the things about a hand-me-down is the degree to which they highlight something that you might want or need, but when it comes into your life, you’re happy to have that thing, and that thing is somehow better than the one you had, or adds something to your life.
My dad recently upgraded his coffee bean grinder, and offered me his old burr grinder, which he had repaired. I imagine he figured that he didn’t need two, but that there wasn’t really anything wrong with the first one. So he repaired it and passed it on to me.
ANFIM Burr Grinder
The burr grinder I have isn’t cheap, necessarily, but it’s nothing special; it s a cuisinart that I’ve had to replace once already. The new one, after some wrangling, works great, and it’s so quiet in comparison to the thrashy, high-decibel noise that comes out of the cuisinart.
So I didn’t know I wanted a new burr grinder, and I wouldn’t have purchased one for myself, but I’m glad dad didn’t chuck this one when he upgraded. My new old grinder is better than my old new one.
SEKI EDGE SS-112 Stainless Steel Nail Clipper
I heard Merlin Mann and John Gruber waxing ecstatic about these nail clippers, and we were talking at home about how terrible an experience nail clipping can be. I remembered these and ordered a pair. Sharp as shit, no joke.
SEKI EDGE SS-112 Stainless Steel Nail Clipper
Tabby 3.0
I featured Tabby in a Sunday Serial back in January of 2024; it was something I was looking for after using Chrome (or Edge) a lot for work. I don’t prefer Chrome (or Edge) to Safari, but I do like its Tab Search feature. Both Tabby and Tab Switcher have found use on my Macs; I recently dove back into Tabby, because while I like Tab Switcher’s center-of-the-active-window UI behavior, I like Tabby’s ability to quickly close tabs.
Updating Tabby today on my Mac Studio found me trying it out again. Version 3 is significantly different from version 2.x in that it appears as a standalone app when you invoke it. I don’t like this better at all; I like the tab search window to be a kind of hud or pop-up menu, with the browser window just behind it.
But there’s a lot to like about the new app: You can save windows with open tabs for later use, just like tab groups in Safari. And, of course, the tab search is awesome.
Tabby 3.0
Tabby does seem to reproduce Safari’s Tab Groups feature in this respect, although as with searching open tabs, Tabby makes things a bit easier. I’ve been using it on my Mac at home at I do like it.
Launchbar
As is usually the case, though, Launchbar can do that, too.
WWDC 2025 Keynote
There was nothing like a Stevenote: Steve Jobs would get up on stage at an Apple event and show off their latest kit. The iPhone introduction is legendary, but there are others worth watching, whether you’re impervious to the reality distortion field or not.
The keynotes aren’t quite like they were in Steve’s days, but they’re still exciting. Things to watch out for include a preview of the next version of macOS, and a significant redesign to your iPhone’s interface.
With the popularity of Markdown, and notably some great apps in the Apple ecosystem that feature the syntax, I always wondered if Markdown’s creator used any of them.
Some people find this surprising, but I personally don’t want to use a Markdown notes app. I created Markdown two decades ago and have used it ever since for one thing and one thing only: writing for the web at Daring Fireball.
Gruber likes Notes for what I’ll assume most people use Markdown apps for: taking notes. Smart Script won me back over to Notes, but it really is a great WYSIWYG editor.
Rhonda discovered Melissa’s Reels on Facebook; she is famous for selling cupcakes, but makes and eats salads on the internet. I wouldn’t imagine that a salad video would be quite so inspiring, but there are some great ideas on her feed. Melissa inspired this peeled carrot salad, which features hot chili oil, rice vinegar, and soy sauce. Really good. Carrot salad
I usually order maraschino cherries for our manhattans on Amazon, but sometimes I imagine that I’ll have occasion to stop and grab a jar. Today, this was my intention; we picked up groceries and I was gonna shoot into the liquor store for a jar. But I forgot.
I asked Copilot for a quick cherry syrup recipe, and so combined equal parts fresh cherries, sugar, and water to make one. I strained the cooked cherries out and put three cherries, which I’d been soaking in vodka, in the syrup while I mixed the drinks. Came out pretty good.
Cherries in syrupGlasses garnishedManhattans
I did just order a can of Luxardo cherries though.
Just up the street is a Vineland restaurant stalwart, the Savoy Inn. It’s a family operated business that has withstood the test of time (and Covid). It was, for a long time, both a venue for big events (like weddings and retirements) and home of the Bistro, a restaurant serving Italian-ish food. They opened Luna’s as a fresh start in a bid to keep up with many local restaurants unveiling outdoor dining options, starting with nearby Villa Fazzolari.
The dining al fresco revolution was welcome; Rhonda and I have been lucky enough to visit Italy twice, both peripheral to Y2K, and lamented upon return back to the States the lack of outdoor dining options that didn’t involve picnic tables and custard. Everywhere we went in Italy, there were restaurants on busy Roman streets with casual tables scattered just outside the storefront. We would find ourselves having pizza and wine for dinner, or a couple of beers, the docle vita expanding languidly into the evening hours.
Luna’s is a little affected: there are aesthetic attempts at making it look like a clam shack, or a landmark spot on a shoreline barrier island road. It’s none of those things, of course, but it also has its own collection of dishes and drinks that suggest an otherness from the Bistro.
Sign at Luna’s
It was a cool and raining evening, but it was still a lot of fun to commune around the table and enjoy the fresh air. It really is a nice spot to sit outside, sip a glass of Sauvignon Blank (see below), and be with the whole fam.
Clams Casino at Luna’s
Sauvignon Blanc
I am guilty of having been a red-wine-only person for a long time; I don’t know where or why that happened, but for many years, a glug of red was my go-to with dinner or a meal out somewhere nice. The Bota Box in the pantry was always a red. This, after a long stretch of preference for whites, probably because I ate fish and veg mostly peripheral to finishing college; I adopted a low-fat vegetarian diet, punctuated by fish for dinner when I’d have a chance to dine out. I fancied Alsacian rieslings at the time, having read that James Joyce favored the varietal.
The gateway wine for me was rosé. I always thought the varietal was a sweeter wine, but I tried a few and loved the lightness of the wine, but appreciated the tartness and body. And having been down the white wine road before, I knew that certain dishes, such as raw oysters, beg for the crisp minerality of a thoughtfully crafted white.
As is my lot in life, I yammered on and on to Rhonda about how good the rosé at Bellview Winery was, after trying a glass at a celebration of life for a former colleague there in the fall of 2023. By that Christmas break, I’d managed to get her over to Bellview, and that’s exactly what she had. That has become our go-to when we visit, in fact.
At home, though, and often when we’re out to eat, we’ll get a bottle of chardonnay. Rhonda likes the oaky, buttery versions generally speaking, and I enjoy them too. But I have an adventurous palette, and on occasions where she’s having a beer or something else, I will wander to other varieties.
J. Lohr Sauvignon Blanc
We took Joe to the nearby Pickwickian for a bite Thursday, and Rhonda ordered a beer. I decided on a class of their house Sauvignon, and it was really nice. (I tend to order their half-chicken when we go there, as it’s pretty guilt-free for bar food.) It was light, crisp, tart–perfect with the chicken. And last night, we joined my parents at Luna’s to celebrate Joe’s girlfriend’s earning her associates degree and I had a couple of glasses there. And Friday night, Rhonda made mussels here at home with some nice bread, and steamed the mussels in some J. Lohr Sauvignon Blanc, which paired nicely with the shellfish.
Meditation
Did you know that the incessant flood of language that besets you when your mind wanders is one, totally normal, and two, not something you have to allow to run your life? Sam Harris thinks so. Meditation is hard.
Thronefall
Plants vs Zombies was all the rage back in 2009, and was my introduction (but not initiation–I never played it) to the tower defense genre. I did enjoy a couple of titles, though: Kingdom Rush and Iron Marines. I preordered Thronefall so that I’d have it at debut. I played through the training mission and it was a blast. I suspect it’s a great intro to the genre, but enthralling for seasoned vets as well.
Rhonda just clued me in that Loretta Switt, who played Margaret Houlihan on the TV version of MASH, died on Friday.
Hot Lips on TV was not the caricature from the movie version. And that makes sense; you can say the same thing about the difference between the television show and the movie. I grew up with the sitcom version on TV each night, but only watched the movie later, in college, rented from the library. My father often lauded it in the same breath as Catch-22. The MASH movie remains among my favorite films of all time. The film is satire; the television show was far more sincere. Both cast a hard light on the human cost of war, with divergent strategies, but equally noble goals.
I imagine that in the same way there are people who stridently affirm that Van Halen is better with Dave and The Office ended when Steve Carell left, the movie trumps the film, or vice versa. For my tastes, I prefer the dark, artful humor of the film, but I recognize how black comedy would not translate into a television serial.
In the same way that Alan Alda brought a pathos to Donald Sutherland’s Hawkeye, Switt played Hot Lips not as a turgid rule follower but as a values-driven exemplar of service–if, occasionally, a little coarse.
I included Neil Fiori’s Unschedule in a Sunday Serial in January. I’ve bastardized it in the intervening months such that I don’t track the time I spend on items necessarily; it’s more of a loose guide of things I think I need to spend time on that day, with all of the time commitments I have (meetings, errands, domestic responsibilities, as well as exercise) accounted for. It still helps me see when I can really sit down and focus for a while, and more importantly, when it would be wise to. And in a pinch, if my Sunday night OmniFocus review doesn’t happen, it at least helps me prioritize Monday.
Most of the items that populate my Unschedule come from OmniFocus. I schedule time for emergent projects on my Unschedule, and consult fantastical for meetings and the like. The astute OmniFocus user might suggest that the Forecast View can, in fact, display your calendar items, so what’s the point of the Unschedule?
Besides, of course, an opportunity to use OmniOutliner.
I’ll tell you, and it’s counterintuitive.
In Getting Things Done, projects are comprised of next actions, and next actions are the small, visible things you can do to move a project forward. OmniFocus excels at capturing these next actions, and is most effectively used to organize these next actions into projects. The general wisdom holds that you work off of action lists: phone calls, email, or errands, for example.
Not so with the Unschedule. You can conceive of it like a punch card system, where you would record 30-minute blocks of work around your other commitments (most importantly, preferred activities… aka fun).
Next actions, atomic nuggets of work that they are, often don’t take up 30 minutes. A phone call might go 10 minutes. Writing a letter might take 15 minutes. Sure, you could log 30-minute blocks of phone calls, and only do that for 30 minutes. But that’s not necessarily how people work. Or me, anyway.
I do find that setting aside time to work on projects is helpful. I can work on the budget for an hour, and I’ll use OmniFocus’s corresponding project to clue me into my next actions. To that end, I find myself populating the Unschedule with projects (sometimes I’ll use Hookmark to link to the project in OmniOutliner). So it’s more of a focused projects list than a repeat of tasks I’ve already recorded elsewhere.
I was thinking about OmniFocus’s Focus perspective and I tried grouping by project. But Forecast doesn’t support such tomfoolery. So I cobbled together a perspective called-what else?-Unschedule, which shows any available tasks that are flagged, due, or deferred, grouped by project. And by using the Collapse All command, it’s effectively an Unschedule without the duplicate data entry. This doesn’t help with time blocking, if that’s how you’re using the Unschedule, but it’s close.
Here’s a slightly ginned-up Unschedule if I weren’t working for a living:
Michael Tsai’s article on the iPad Mini has really been hanging with me since I read it–I like the “lean into” it angle he’s pushing, after so much trying to bend the OS (or me) into being something it isn’t.
It’s better to lean into what it’s good at. For years, Apple tried to resist the idea of an iPad as an iPhone with a larger screen. But the apps have trended in that direction, and I think that’s actually not a bad way to think of it. It’s actually what a lot of people want.
There’s a lot to like about using the iPad as it is, especially if you like to write notes. I’m much more casual about tossing the pen on the end table or nightstand when I don’t need it, or tucking it behind my ear. Even the largest models beg to be used naked in one hand.
For those of us in the US, tomorrow is Memorial Day, which commemorates persons in military service who perished in the line of duty. Aaron leaves for Disney tomorrow, so we’re not doing anything out of the ordinary, save for not going to work. Lots of BBQs going on.
Anyway, here are some things for your consideration:
Hidden Sands Brewing
Rhonda and I gave up the usual winery visit for a quick pint during an emergent errand. Drinking at the facility is not an expansive Tonewood-like experience; it’s a more industrial, out-of-the-way spot. We both enjoyed the beer, and the Porter is not to be fucked with. Like really good homebrew in a basement bar vibes. Hidden Sands
The location itself reminded me of Slack Tide Brewing Company. They’re both little industrial spots off of historic Route 9. We stopped there on a lark with the kids years ago while on vacation in Ocean City, NJ.
The Martinez
I whipped up an intermezzo between our pints and dinner last night. The Martinez is gin and sweet vermouth, which in our case is Bombay and Antica. You could riff endlessly on this combo. I didn’t have maraschino liqueur, but I did use a little cherry juice. The Martinez
AC Sub Rolls
I don’t prefer these to the more classic semolina roll or chewy Italian that you would get at a lot of sandwich shops around here. I do, however, appreciate the variety. My first try some years ago wasn’t favorable; I found it kinda gluey in my mouth. But successive tries have been more favorable. Again, I wouldn’t choose an AC roll over a reliably good hoagie roll, but it’s a fun switch. They do offer good structure to a sandwich. They tend to be more narrow, making for a smaller (or just thinner but longer) sandwich.
We have four iPhones in the house, and a family Apple One account. This means we can all listen to most any song, at a whim.
Yet: Aaron is a vinyl kid. He’s been collecting records. He has a record player. He goes to record shops. Tonight, on the way home from dinner, we went to Wall to Wall Sound and Videoat his behest. This expansive museum to a bygone era is named, most purposefully, after a now-defunct audio chain I frequented. I had a blast browsing the stacks, and would have absolutely purchased the debut Danzig album, were it in stock.
I really need to listen to Madonna’s True Blue record again. It has nothing to do with my taste in music now or even in the last 40 years, but I had a cassette as a kid and I listened to it constantly on my Walkman. It was the soundtrack to my walk to the bus stop each morning in second or third grade. I suspect I’d enjoy it today. And one time, I remember the section of “White Heat” where there’s a gunshot in the audio, played immediately when my grandfather started his car, and it scared the crap out of him. We had a good laugh over it.
I’d be lying if the suds were exclusive to today. Rhonda and I found ourselves near Hidden Sands Brewery on an unrelated mission and completely by happenstance, and so we stopped for a few pints. Rhonda tried an IPA; I fancied a pilsner and porter. Both of mine were excellent but boy did we both love the porter: roasty and quaffable. Really good.
Hidden Sands IPA and Pilsner Hidden Sands Porter
Friday I stopped to grab a crowler (or two) at 13th Child Brewery in Williamstown. I’ve driven by it many times but it doesn’t open until 5 until late in the week, so I haven’t been able to stop in. I got two crowlers, and took the barkeep’s suggestion that I have something while I waited. So I had a pilsner. 13th Child Pils
I really think everyone should give RSS a revisit. It’s better than using a news app since you get to curate it yourself, and it’s better than visiting sites one at a time. It makes consuming content so much more enjoyable, that it’s hard to live without.